On authority....
On authority: it is important that we respect authority... BUT not blindly. I will never blindly follow authority for with authority oftentimes comes abuse. AS an adult, I feel it is my job as an American to challenge and question authority. It is how progress happens. This does not mean I do not respect those who are police officers and prosecutors. It does mean that I am inherently suspicious of them. I do not subscribe to the construct that a police officers opinion is necessarily more accurate than even a crack addict. It should be judged on a case by case basis. This is what a jury should do. I've met many a wonderful cop and many dedicated prosecutors. But there are more than a FEW rotten apples. This is also true in education. I teach my kids to respect authority. It is inappropriate for them to question per se, but I also inform them that if something goes against what we, as parents, have said, you do not have to answer and can ask to speak with us. Think I am paranoid? On Friday's 20/20 two boys were arrested and charged with sexual battery for spanking the girls on their ass. They called it booty day or something to that effect. These boys were 12 and 13 years old. The boys and girls both engaged in this behavior. The "victims" in the case feel that nothing wrong happened. The boys were questioned for five minutes and arrested and put in jail and subjected to multiple strip searches. They were not able to see their parents for three days. The boys were read their rights, but they did not understand them. They asked to speak with their parents and were denied. The prosecutor proceeded. They were staring at being in jail until they were 25 years old and be placed on the registered sex offender list. After six months dancing in the courts, the judge finally dismissed the charges after every alleged victim signed an affidavit stating that they did not feel they were victims. Who is to blame here? The cop for being such a nebish and being rash to judge and put a notch in his belt. The prosecutor bears most of the responsibility for their ego is out of whack. However, the American public bears responsibilty as well for religiously submitting to authority and not challenging such abuse. Want more? There was another feature on this 20/20 episode where a girl was working at a McDonalds in Kentucky. A manager receives a call saying they were a cop and that this girl had stolen a purse. The man on the phone demanded that the manager put her in the back room and asked her to empty her pockets and take her keys and cell phone. Then to my horror, the man on the phone asked the manager to have the girl strip searched. So they leave this poor girl in this room for over two hours...naked. Then the manager's fiance goes and watches her. The man on the phone asked the man to spank the girl. Then the man asked the fiance to perform oral sex on him. Eventually someone else was called in and they put a stop to this nightmare. Okay, who is to blame? The manager is certainly to blame and she was, in fact, charged with false imprisonment. The fiance was convicted of forced sodomy. The man on the phone was charge but acquitted. Should he have been? No, but in my wildest dreams I cannot fathom how anyone could ever do this. The victim said that she was taught to accept authority and not to question it, especially from adults and authority figures. The manager said that he sounded like a cop so she did what she was told. So... who's to blame? We often wonder how the holocaust happened. How could so many people turn a blind eye? How you ask? By blind submission to authority. I do not care if a cop were standing over my shoulder I would never listen to a stupid cop tell me to do something like this. It just would not happen. Man reading this would say the same thing, but ask yourself, do you trust a cop more than someone else by virtue that they are a cop? I do not. Does it make me better? No, but it is just the way I am. I am not alone and many people are starting to recognize the complacency of the American people. It is why a hyper authoritative president like Bush still has many people who say "he's the president therefore I agree with him." What in the hell? Wake up people, your life just may depend on it.